tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post2720277487429783777..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: GETTING TO THE ROOTJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-49478880723178567642010-02-15T05:49:27.575-05:002010-02-15T05:49:27.575-05:00Wow! Those were huge losses for you. James Dobson ...Wow! Those were huge losses for you. James Dobson (sp?) says that divorce affects teens as much as young children. My heart does go out to you. Going into the fantasy realm is our coping mechanism I think. I was the "good girl" never arguing back, NOT talking but that sure didn't help then or now. For me the healing seems to come slowly but it's in the talking about it that has helped, it takes away the power I give it when I keep, have kept, those feelings thoughts inside. I'm doing the "REAL TALKS" with God more and more knowing He knows me anyway, just as I am, and can handle it and wants me to do that. I'm sure I've played out that role as the victim most of my life in the choices I have made in relationships. With God's help and truth I do not want to travel down those paths again. I think God reveals things to us when we are ready; like taking a layer of skin off an onion, just one layer at a time. He's doing that with you and me and I am grateful. JanieJaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07865495431494792336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-7486991953076843532010-02-10T04:24:14.450-05:002010-02-10T04:24:14.450-05:00This was the only way you could survive. Good tha...This was the only way you could survive. Good that you accepted that much. Keep praying that God will show you what needs to be pointed out. He will come through for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-7102777423736332062010-02-09T23:53:56.488-05:002010-02-09T23:53:56.488-05:00Not healthy to enjoy being a victim even if its on...Not healthy to enjoy being a victim even if its only a fantasy sweetie, believe in being the survivor always......you have so much going for you, keep praying and moving forward. Change your fantasies, change your dreams......means changing your life....yay<br />.........:-) HugsBerniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03024565921761129108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-60705346953804205912010-02-09T23:44:20.082-05:002010-02-09T23:44:20.082-05:00God will reveal the answer when it is time. So man...God will reveal the answer when it is time. So many things are linked together. I also had a fantasy land growing up and still do to a certain extent. Take care.lostinamazehttp://inamaze.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-74015256026986752072010-02-09T23:17:16.670-05:002010-02-09T23:17:16.670-05:00God is speaking to you, my friend, and in His timi...God is speaking to you, my friend, and in His timing, He will reveal and heal! <br /><br />Blessings~<br />LauraThe Red Brick Farmhousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06284797355909025022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-51212822281911083062010-02-09T23:04:14.714-05:002010-02-09T23:04:14.714-05:00JBR: There are very few girls growing up who did ...JBR: There are very few girls growing up who did not fight with their moms, argue with their dads/stepdads, slam doors, avoid adults, sulk/hide in their rooms. It is called being a teenager!!<br /><br />Maybe God has created a safe place for you to vent, and it is your car.<br /><br />Hoping your prayers are answered soon!WinnyNinny PooPoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237156887425609665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-40999720382017238032010-02-09T22:59:20.158-05:002010-02-09T22:59:20.158-05:00you are facing it and giving to God! He will be fa...you are facing it and giving to God! He will be faithful...Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-85753615980760347452010-02-09T22:37:59.923-05:002010-02-09T22:37:59.923-05:00I had the same experience as a child. Being in a f...I had the same experience as a child. Being in a fantasy made me able to be in control as well as have people rescue me when I was hurting. I would often imagine myself as the victim and have people try to save me, sometimes they were able to, sometimes they were not. I think this is a totally normal coping mechanism when people are faced with difficult things, especially as children.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13494627319554429765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-78412674095664592382010-02-09T22:07:20.227-05:002010-02-09T22:07:20.227-05:00Keep praying!
The answers will come!
Margie:)Keep praying!<br />The answers will come!<br /><br />Margie:)Margiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14433759763753850718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-74861406954583427832010-02-09T21:38:24.677-05:002010-02-09T21:38:24.677-05:00I enjoyed looking over your blog
God bless youI enjoyed looking over your blog<br />God bless youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84804963183786732412010-02-09T21:27:55.987-05:002010-02-09T21:27:55.987-05:00My la-la land fantasies gave me something to look ...My la-la land fantasies gave me something to look forward to as a child, preteen and teen. It was a place I could go, be in control (in my case), and to escape to. I understand this. You definitely aren't alone in doing this as an escape. Understanding, hugs if you would like, and belief in you your way...angJournal of Healinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08888880691764691538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-71299527304906412422010-02-09T20:40:25.156-05:002010-02-09T20:40:25.156-05:00In your sharing about your morbid side brought to ...In your sharing about your morbid side brought to mind some things I to haven't let go in my past. Great reminder. Thanks.strawberryhttp://strawberry.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-80713862261230328932010-02-09T20:38:40.839-05:002010-02-09T20:38:40.839-05:00GOD will continue to reveal HIMSELF to you.
Hugs,
...GOD will continue to reveal HIMSELF to you.<br />Hugs,<br />andreaAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03082891172963869545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-76237337061407647162010-02-09T20:35:19.046-05:002010-02-09T20:35:19.046-05:00Asking God to reveal all things to you dear, love ...Asking God to reveal all things to you dear, love you.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-88364105100938963462010-02-09T20:35:11.679-05:002010-02-09T20:35:11.679-05:00sometimes LA LA Land can be a good thing,staying t...sometimes LA LA Land can be a good thing,staying there too long is not.God will heal you,but it will be on his time not yours.Mike Golchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14472496241893921107noreply@blogger.com