tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post4279640452262565422..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: MAN WILL ALWAYS DISAPPOINTJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84850790665200334972009-12-10T10:16:10.808-05:002009-12-10T10:16:10.808-05:00Boy can I relate - and it looks like a lot of othe...Boy can I relate - and it looks like a lot of others can as well. It's hard to change. It feels like selfishness, but you have to keep telling yourself it is not! We are meant to be responsible for ourselves, and if we ignore our needs for others, we are not doing our primary job.Shenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635993168913490929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-14168836581040921762009-12-10T06:41:15.140-05:002009-12-10T06:41:15.140-05:00Thank you all very much! Your insights are welcom...Thank you all very much! Your insights are welcomed.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-45202954883136469062009-12-10T05:48:21.105-05:002009-12-10T05:48:21.105-05:00Aww JBR. Your sweet regardless. Hang in there.Aww JBR. Your sweet regardless. Hang in there.stuck-in-the-middlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-31741058480177004252009-12-10T04:10:34.283-05:002009-12-10T04:10:34.283-05:00Everyone one said it perfectly. Not much more I c...Everyone one said it perfectly. Not much more I can add. Great indepth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-5743764084244367902009-12-10T03:28:30.200-05:002009-12-10T03:28:30.200-05:00i'm also a people-pleaser. but i have changed ...i'm also a people-pleaser. but i have changed that to not be toxic anymore... not easy. but it can be done.Shadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05999801833389058410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-40736150275903834912009-12-10T02:31:34.679-05:002009-12-10T02:31:34.679-05:00When we are insecure that is what happens, I went ...When we are insecure that is what happens, I went through that in my earlier years but I am glad I grew out of it sufficiently strong enough to exercise BEING ME. God takes us through steps I realise .. clear one hurdle first then we can take the next hurdle using what we have become.<br />Praying for you, JBR your spiritual health and strength.<br />BMA Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-64603709074450336002009-12-10T02:30:12.977-05:002009-12-10T02:30:12.977-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.A Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-92040431717082417552009-12-10T01:36:55.132-05:002009-12-10T01:36:55.132-05:00I have not gone all out to please anyone in order ...I have not gone all out to please anyone in order that they will like me, or appreciate me. Well not anymore. You set expectations when you do that. Now I will go all out to be kind, not please. 'Kindness' can come in the form of telling you the hard truth for your own good. 'Pleasing' is telling you something that you would like hear and it may not be the truth. My conscience is clear, I was kind, whether you like it or not.<br /><br />Pray that MY LORD likes it. Blessings.Gaiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15069503364553279367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-50870439646224924962009-12-10T00:44:23.436-05:002009-12-10T00:44:23.436-05:00You said it right... man will always disappoint! M...You said it right... man will always disappoint! My mom used to say "For every look at a person, the LAST look should ALWAYS be to Jesus". Isn't it such a sweet relief to know that GOD doesn't play games and that we can be totally honest with Him. That kind of 'real' is what I want to be. "JBR" tells me that you do too.http://bitsandpieces-sonja.blogspot.com/https://www.blogger.com/profile/09254831447887637714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-54459839387555292912009-12-10T00:04:15.753-05:002009-12-10T00:04:15.753-05:00Many of us are people pleasers. Learn to please y...Many of us are people pleasers. Learn to please yourself. Glad you are getting help and working through all this.Sandra Wilkeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06640562716913535824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-41572328905540330702009-12-09T23:23:54.101-05:002009-12-09T23:23:54.101-05:00wow you put it perfectly...wow you put it perfectly...Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00061065724507437035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-27323428170873296062009-12-09T23:08:12.115-05:002009-12-09T23:08:12.115-05:00I was a people pleaser most of my life... so busy ...I was a people pleaser most of my life... so busy pleasing others that I became a stranger to my own needs... definitely know what you are writing about here, JBR. Now it's time to focus on you, and what YOU need, what YOU think, what YOU feel. Great post! Warm hugs too!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-85365622734899842092009-12-09T23:06:23.605-05:002009-12-09T23:06:23.605-05:00I love you. Please only God sweetie.I love you. Please only God sweetie.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-46179896908648379062009-12-09T23:00:16.382-05:002009-12-09T23:00:16.382-05:00Oh man, I am struggling with this big time.
Tryi...Oh man, I am struggling with this big time. <br /><br />Trying to reach out to people is my struggle. I've been burned so many times that I don't want to try again. All I can do is think of how much I have been disappointed. It's hard to have faith in those around you when your past is telling you otherwise.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05952500756645034418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-62968438822214264162009-12-09T22:31:19.868-05:002009-12-09T22:31:19.868-05:00Colleen appreciate the hugs very much, thank you.
...Colleen appreciate the hugs very much, thank you.<br /><br /><br />GGG,thank you! Blessings...Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-59190329773382443342009-12-09T22:17:10.651-05:002009-12-09T22:17:10.651-05:00Wanted to leave you a comment on your "Desire...Wanted to leave you a comment on your "Desires" post, but it looks like you deleted it. Or at least, my Google Reader says the page is not there anymore. Anyways, just wanted to comment on the beautiful poster(?) you made. I really love it.Great-Granny Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00984367859984906071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-13007613846610588272009-12-09T20:53:41.246-05:002009-12-09T20:53:41.246-05:00.
Rose, I heading that way, thank you for the hugs....<br />Rose, I heading that way, thank you for the hugs.<br /><br />Just Because Today, I am truly sorry for your pain dear that you are experiencing but glad my words have helped somewhat. <br /><br />*************<br /><br />I usually do not respond this much to one of my posts, but I have been so antcy and aggravated most of the day, only because God never lets up with pruning me and having things happen in order for me to benefit from. You would think He would give me a day off.....NOT!!<br />Anyway, I am fidgity and this is the perfect time to thank all of you as best I can by trying to respond as much to this post and your comments....Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-53706718128890724752009-12-09T20:50:06.054-05:002009-12-09T20:50:06.054-05:00I can relate so much to your post today. I feel I ...I can relate so much to your post today. I feel I am hurting, your post has helped me. thank youA Plain Observerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741520771592669741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-1471424013007975262009-12-09T20:10:22.432-05:002009-12-09T20:10:22.432-05:00JBR, you are so right. Man always disappoints, but...JBR, you are so right. Man always disappoints, but GOD is an ever present help in our times of need. The only person you have to worry about pleasing is God. <br />Hugs for you my sister!<br />RoseRosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682139599731771619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-31376821156255583862009-12-09T19:45:20.338-05:002009-12-09T19:45:20.338-05:00Lelia, glad this message could help you.
AIP, Sor...Lelia, glad this message could help you.<br /><br />AIP, Sorry you too struggle as well. It ain't fun! Thank you for the compliment and hugs.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-11328182827914604182009-12-09T19:36:21.928-05:002009-12-09T19:36:21.928-05:00Very very good! Thanks for sharing this timely mes...Very very good! Thanks for sharing this timely message.Lelia Chealeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13173827811277833243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-61963844025886189632009-12-09T19:27:55.692-05:002009-12-09T19:27:55.692-05:00Good for you for learning to not "people plea...Good for you for learning to not "people please" - I struggle with that too! You are such a beautiful soul. Hugs to you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-49915555415759355042009-12-09T19:24:25.689-05:002009-12-09T19:24:25.689-05:00LeeAnn, thank you! So very true!LeeAnn, thank you! So very true!Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-10927577979059992032009-12-09T19:22:20.123-05:002009-12-09T19:22:20.123-05:00Re-visiting your past pain and having someone to h...Re-visiting your past pain and having someone to help you see it for what it really was, then help you let it go- IS SO WORTH IT!! Good for you!<br /><br />Lee AnnLeeAnn@Encouragement Is Contagioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11115472068334541489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-12637246632966800532009-12-09T19:16:42.115-05:002009-12-09T19:16:42.115-05:00Secretia, that is my goal NOT to have to please pe...Secretia, that is my goal NOT to have to please people to gain my self-worth!<br /><br />Andrea, yes, a work in progress seems to be correct.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.com