tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post4666286073970164330..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: NO FIGHT IN MEJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-70898060993195356942011-04-11T09:50:41.646-04:002011-04-11T09:50:41.646-04:00Praying GOD heals your heart and restores you comp...Praying GOD heals your heart and restores you completely binding up the enemy and thwarting his plans. <br /><br />Much love, hugs, and prayers,<br />andreaAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03082891172963869545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-12743852650905837782011-04-11T05:40:29.254-04:002011-04-11T05:40:29.254-04:00Hey JBR haven't heard from you in a few days. ...Hey JBR haven't heard from you in a few days. I know you had it kind of rough in therapy the other day. I'm praying you are resting and gaining some much needed strength. Praying for you. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-72060723507912093752011-04-10T22:59:57.552-04:002011-04-10T22:59:57.552-04:00It's very brave what you are doing at your sit...It's very brave what you are doing at your site here. The truth will free you, indeed. I know there are many ups and downs to getting better. Wishing you well tonight :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01547380098561803645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-26284207019473213932011-04-10T17:37:09.282-04:002011-04-10T17:37:09.282-04:00Abuse search brought me to your blog. I'm a v...Abuse search brought me to your blog. I'm a victim of parent beatings as a child. Read your profile and some of your posts. I am amazed and sorry for what was done to you. I want to get to the place as a survivor like you. SuzSuszanne Lightennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-34796080795079491912011-04-10T17:33:09.829-04:002011-04-10T17:33:09.829-04:00Just checking back on you. Hope all is OK.Just checking back on you. Hope all is OK.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-38612876453113901262011-04-09T17:51:22.079-04:002011-04-09T17:51:22.079-04:00When we start trusting ourselves we start living! ...When we start trusting ourselves we start living! T is very exhausting and you are a go-getter on it. Please give yourself a break. Surely you were deceived like most of us. Deceived of childhood, innocence, discipline and love. Be kind and loving to this Little JBR. BTW, maybe my post from today might be of support to you. Love and hugs, PaulaPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241317042459836045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-85415930291100027982011-04-09T10:04:58.619-04:002011-04-09T10:04:58.619-04:00Thanks for being real! I could really relate to t...Thanks for being real! I could really relate to this. Therapy often leaves me exhausted as well. Last week after therapy, I wanted so much to curl up on the couch with my favorite afghan and a stuffed animal. <br /><br />But I thought my teenage boys might be a little disturbed to see their mother on the couch with a blankie and a stuffie...LOL. They know I go to therapy, but still...<br /><br />So I opted for just the afghan. :)Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15897067084988651970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-73441640492166477482011-04-08T23:31:17.554-04:002011-04-08T23:31:17.554-04:00I love the way you describe stuff. You'll prob...I love the way you describe stuff. You'll probably be glad you revealed so much later on. It's just scary to open up and be vulnerable.Flanneryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18367538352164522498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-43080015967531399612011-04-08T13:24:12.868-04:002011-04-08T13:24:12.868-04:00Have you ever heard of emotional therapy? The the...Have you ever heard of emotional therapy? The therapy goes at the client’s pace and the number of sessions will vary according to the client’s needs. Often the problem is that a person doesn’t know what the problem is. Sometimes they do know what the problem is but don’t know what to do about it. They may feel that they are repeating past mistakes and following unhelpful patterns of behaviour. They may want to make changes within their life, but don’t know how to, or what is stopping them.<br />A key aspect of emotional therapy is the range of techniques used by the therapist to assist the client to both recognise and release painful feelings in an appropriate manner, by working with the emotions rather than the mind. Is that you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-87100550228540040782011-04-08T11:46:02.638-04:002011-04-08T11:46:02.638-04:00I understand how you feel. Deception is hard to pr...I understand how you feel. Deception is hard to process from a childhood filled with pain. To be deceived by parents and family that are suppose to shelter and love you is the biggest hurt of all.<br /><br />Being vunerable takes a lot of courage, my friend. It takes time to process all that you are learning right now. I am so very proud of you for facing your fears.<br /><br />Therapy is sort of give and take. I don't always feel like sharing. In fact, my therapist, said when I am ready we will go there. I know it's there but I only drop brief little statements about that pain. Sometimes I am ready and sometimes I am not ready to handle the pain. <br /><br />God knows all you have been through and is crazy about you. He loves you for who you are.<br /><br />Soft hugs my friend.<br />Peace and love to you.<br />PamFinding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-63068655030709489512011-04-08T09:51:34.465-04:002011-04-08T09:51:34.465-04:00I can imagine that you must be exhausted. May Our ...I can imagine that you must be exhausted. May Our Lord give you the spiritual and physical rest that you need, my friend.Mary N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618318192221168152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-19134707276530735382011-04-08T09:01:36.964-04:002011-04-08T09:01:36.964-04:00JBR you're doing great. Read some of your pre...JBR you're doing great. Read some of your previous post. Need to stop in more often.Strawberryhttp://strawberry.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-11390572118318105982011-04-08T08:34:19.521-04:002011-04-08T08:34:19.521-04:00rest well, therapy can beat you up pretty much...rest well, therapy can beat you up pretty much...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-26992426284441141392011-04-08T08:15:37.576-04:002011-04-08T08:15:37.576-04:00Therapy can really take a lot out of you. I know ...Therapy can really take a lot out of you. I know that after every session I have with D I want to curl up and go to sleep (partially because I expended all of my energy talking and crying, and partially because I'm depressed). But I wouldn't describe what you're going through as "no fight." On the contrary, you're fighting SO HARD. Letting your walls down does not mean that you are giving up-- it means that you are allowing yourself to feel (which, I'm told, is part of the POINT of therapy). What I'm trying to say is that I think you are doing great.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-81586133746609265852011-04-08T07:09:17.943-04:002011-04-08T07:09:17.943-04:00I understand how you feel, therapy can take a lot ...I understand how you feel, therapy can take a lot out of you.Hope you can get some rest. Take gentle care..Paolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00634737844277597900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-81196556750502266572011-04-08T06:44:56.248-04:002011-04-08T06:44:56.248-04:00JBR getting tongue tied or loss of memory is commo...JBR getting tongue tied or loss of memory is common when trying to explain such a deep painful memory. Don't worry if the words don't come out all right. God manages to make sense out of our nonsenses. You're doing great. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-2402090113462634192011-04-08T00:27:22.571-04:002011-04-08T00:27:22.571-04:00I think it's good that you trust your T enough...I think it's good that you trust your T enough to allow that vulnerable part of you to emerge. I think it is natural to feel insecure when you've been deceived...you worked hard in T, JBR, as noted by your exhaustion.<br />I hope you rest well!Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-51202927094978627232011-04-07T22:03:42.011-04:002011-04-07T22:03:42.011-04:00WOW AND A DOUBLE WOW THAT YOU CAN EVEN PUT YOUR T...WOW AND A DOUBLE WOW THAT YOU CAN EVEN PUT YOUR THOUGHTS TOGETHER TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF THE WAY YOU DID JBR. I GET IT. I UNDERSTAND YOU. NOT TO SOUND NEGATIVE, BUT WHAT I'M UNDERSTANDING IS AN EXAMPLE WHEN AN ENEMY KNOWS THERE'RE DEFEATED THEY SURRENDER AS THERE FORCES ARE TO WEAK TO CONTINUE TO PROTECT THE FORT.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-5928966474154303942011-04-07T22:00:49.936-04:002011-04-07T22:00:49.936-04:00Im the sameb way I can become veyr exhausted wi...Im the sameb way I can become veyr exhausted with life go into my session and just sit there blank MY therepasit would question whats wrong with me and sometimbes I don't have the words to tel lhim whats bothering me. did I say what I meant to say. Frustrating and maad I end up. We then have to talk about why I'm mad. Hang tight.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-82017461886118346652011-04-07T19:20:21.613-04:002011-04-07T19:20:21.613-04:00Get some sleep. Therapy can be very exhausting. Hu...Get some sleep. Therapy can be very exhausting. Hugs JBR.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.com