tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post4840138734028452604..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: REALITY SETS IN!Just Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-26492841540609842882009-10-17T00:05:36.996-04:002009-10-17T00:05:36.996-04:00Keeping you in my prayers.. you are so honest. I w...Keeping you in my prayers.. you are so honest. I wish you so much goodness in your life. <br /><br />A million hugs.<br /><br />I'm feeling very emotionally healthy lately.<br /><br />I had some bad thoughts and could have spiral down at times of Late.. but I remember the tools I learned in Al-Anon and use them..<br /><br />I'm understanding about triggers.. and that has helped too.<br /><br />took a long time. I'm 48 .. but better these precious days now finally..<br /><br />The pain of my childhood is dissipating.. I feel strong and not a victim..Ms Hen'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04844440761689489376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-53435506021317325402009-10-16T21:58:42.885-04:002009-10-16T21:58:42.885-04:00And you will be okay you know. There will come a d...And you will be okay you know. There will come a day you will be able to go your own way. You are fortunate indeed to have such latitude at work. Take care. You are one day closer to freedom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-78553879292115887862009-10-15T15:47:52.306-04:002009-10-15T15:47:52.306-04:00I, too, am grateful that you have a boss that supp...I, too, am grateful that you have a boss that supports you with the issues you are working on...and how hard they are. The people pleasing is a toughy. You'd think, once we have the awareness that it is poison and it's slowly killing us, that we'd never once take another taste. But, it's a process that takes a lot longer than that. Be patient with yourself and take gentle care.Marj aka Thriverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825698906631474866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-87226006560645478852009-10-15T14:12:11.752-04:002009-10-15T14:12:11.752-04:00What you say here rings so true. I thought that I...What you say here rings so true. I thought that I was so alone in being strong and then falling down again. I feel like I am on the cusp of falling apart, and clinging to hope that I will make it again. Please take care of you, and thanks for being real.<br /><br />hugs, mile 191mile191https://www.blogger.com/profile/12948235476841214379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84615072449928844712009-10-15T13:07:09.291-04:002009-10-15T13:07:09.291-04:00I found the following quote a while back and I cop...I found the following quote a while back and I copied it even put it on my computer. This may be of help or just insight. Ron<br /><br />Emotional pain is the scourge of the heart and soul. Emotional pain eats away at our humanity. Emotional pain is a burden taking away the quality of our life and most assuredly our emotional pain weighs us down. When we are burdened by our emotional pain we need to lighten the burden. When we hurt, we need a way to take some of the weight off our heart and soul. There is a way to lighten our burden of emotional pain. The way to lighten our load is to tune into the upward pulling force of Jesus.RONhttp://www.geocities.com/ron_greib/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-57226873538848227042009-10-15T12:34:25.410-04:002009-10-15T12:34:25.410-04:00Hang in there sweetie. The love that you'll e...Hang in there sweetie. The love that you'll eventually embrace will be worth it in the end.Dee Deenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-2387049073500637412009-10-15T12:16:06.536-04:002009-10-15T12:16:06.536-04:00While I can't say I know what you are going th...While I can't say I know what you are going through exactly, I do know the fickleness of emotions. I am praying for you, sweetie. God is with you. (((((hugs)))))diane dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04412881863305184310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-32384192869763517522009-10-15T12:00:40.509-04:002009-10-15T12:00:40.509-04:00Thinking of you and sending good thoughts to you!
...Thinking of you and sending good thoughts to you!<br />May today be the beginning of a lifetime of beautiful days!<br /><br />Take very good care of your special self!<br /><br />Joy and blessings to you!<br /><br />Margie:)Margiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14433759763753850718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-12951855434950698292009-10-15T07:26:11.578-04:002009-10-15T07:26:11.578-04:00that see-saw effect... very disconcerting. hugs hu...that see-saw effect... very disconcerting. hugs hunny!Shadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05999801833389058410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-1661137545371297902009-10-15T06:44:51.756-04:002009-10-15T06:44:51.756-04:00Jesus understands your pain Just Be REal! He'...Jesus understands your pain Just Be REal! He's as real as they come. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-670979960227957972009-10-15T05:28:54.610-04:002009-10-15T05:28:54.610-04:00JBR hang in there. You speak of hope in the midst...JBR hang in there. You speak of hope in the midst of your sorrow. That always encouarges me.stuck-in-the-middlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-58743684369510814742009-10-15T04:47:21.898-04:002009-10-15T04:47:21.898-04:00As a Christian, your chief mandate, your number-on...As a Christian, your chief mandate, your number-one priority, your ultimate ambition, your main purpose for living is to please God. <br />Not only does the people-pleaser love the wrong thing (the approval of man rather than the approval of God), he fears the wrong thing as well—he fears the disapproval of man more than the disapproval of God.<br /><br />Fearing the rejection of man is often a misplaced fear. Being focused on pleasing people is unrealistic since selfishness distorts their reasoning and causes them to have unreasonable expectations. So why "would you trust his [man's] ability to discern your character and determine the basis on which he approves or disapproves of you? Why trust him to determine the standard by which he accepts or rejects you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-90025988525804059822009-10-15T04:43:55.418-04:002009-10-15T04:43:55.418-04:00I have a great blog post you might find interestin...I have a great blog post you might find interesting. Take a peek! http://www.2blessed2bcursed.com/Precious Gemshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04424274589708431598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-52519633341881985482009-10-15T04:32:47.653-04:002009-10-15T04:32:47.653-04:00Darlin' examine this statement of yours.
&quo...Darlin' examine this statement of yours.<br /><br />"I knew this was going to happen beforehand." <br /><br />Is it possible that your prior to the event statement of belief brought about the action that made it come true?<br /><br />Nothing in the future is predetermined. Ever. always walk with an open mind and react in the moment not hours beforehand.<br /><br />Be Well JBR.the walking manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058913927297370740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-28552590811151277102009-10-15T04:08:30.763-04:002009-10-15T04:08:30.763-04:00Oh Dear One, hugs to you. It is great to watch and...Oh Dear One, hugs to you. It is great to watch and feel your progress. Guess many of us who lived on ones ide only experience this "I will manage" and "I will die" - the two extremes which will balance themselves in due course til then they happened very often to me. Pleople pleasing is hard to overcome, I remember I even wanted to please my Therapist! Sometimes I still do however in the moment I realise it I take actions. To get to this point took my sample 10 years... Be patient, be gentle with yourself. It becomes easier, all... Love across the pondPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241317042459836045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-5781357727759335812009-10-15T01:30:38.963-04:002009-10-15T01:30:38.963-04:00I struggle with people pleasing too. It seems tha...I struggle with people pleasing too. It seems that frequently I'll feel the old familiar anxiety rising and realize I'm at it again. Then I'll remind myself that God is the only one I need to please and that, even if I mess up, He still loves me.<br /><br />As mentioned above, it's a process. You've come so far; I'm believing you're going to be experiencing more and more days ahead that include that safe and nurtured experience from the Holy Spirit.Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15692160455833039396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-89273295833214520022009-10-14T23:29:22.034-04:002009-10-14T23:29:22.034-04:00I understand how you feel my friendI understand how you feel my friendAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-21409406847055931852009-10-14T22:50:25.583-04:002009-10-14T22:50:25.583-04:00JBR,
This is where you should give up pleasing p...JBR, <br /><br />This is where you should give up pleasing people who are bound to let you down, and become God pleasing because He will never let you down. <br /><br />Love and Hugs ~ KatHeart2Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05240536955573366802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-58844632530787656252009-10-14T22:22:51.166-04:002009-10-14T22:22:51.166-04:00Even if you said yes, you can always change your m...Even if you said yes, you can always change your mind. I started out just like what you are experiencing now: blowin' it. Then, I learned how to give myself an out in the beginning by adding something to the "yes", like, "I'll have to check first, tho." (less embarrassing to back out afterwards). And then, I learned how to say "no". Finally, I can say, "No thanks, I don't want to." I can't do it every time, like during depressed days, but I know I will be able to do it again.<br /><br />Hang in there - and many hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-11397190040206310672009-10-14T21:45:46.887-04:002009-10-14T21:45:46.887-04:00JBR I am glad to read that you did feel good at on...JBR I am glad to read that you did feel good at one point. I pray in reality this will come more often for you.strawberryhttp://strawberry.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-56705675357285897642009-10-14T21:31:21.440-04:002009-10-14T21:31:21.440-04:00This post intrigues me for two reasons:
1) If you...This post intrigues me for two reasons:<br /><br />1) If you were a captive or prisoner, held in a cave, or deep under ground in darkness for a great length of time, you would acclimate to darkness.<br />Suddenly, you are set free at high noon.<br />Even though you are free, your eyes squint shut tight, and you are confused and disoriented, for the power of the light is so true, and so new to you. It would take time for anyone to readjust from darkness to the light of day.<br /><br />Christ himself said "I am the LIGHT of the World", among other things, so drawing close to Him brings greater brightness to you daily, and you are adjusting to the newness of His Light and Love.<br /><br />2). What a blessing for you to be employed by the one person in the marketplace that would allow you a few moments of downtime, as you readjust to Number 1 stated above.<br />This person is truly a gift from God to you, and those in this audience who pray, should give thanks to the Lord for the gift of this employer for JBR. No wonder they call him the Savior.Keystonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02465358638077475521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-19544470662060481972009-10-14T21:08:34.377-04:002009-10-14T21:08:34.377-04:00Hang in there, and take your time.Hang in there, and take your time.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-52656125846976940912009-10-14T20:51:02.418-04:002009-10-14T20:51:02.418-04:00The positive thng here is that you experienced fee...The positive thng here is that you experienced feeling safe and being loved yesterday. Those are someting you can fall back on as they become more evident in your life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-87512010846712763482009-10-14T20:49:57.767-04:002009-10-14T20:49:57.767-04:00We can't change in an instant..We're all w...We can't change in an instant..We're all work in progress. Hang in there JBR! Blessings to you.RCUBEshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03726426726039665564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84889053667756517682009-10-14T20:41:52.543-04:002009-10-14T20:41:52.543-04:00I go back and forth between thinking I'm going...I go back and forth between thinking I'm going to make it, and then thinking I'm going to die. <br />Hang in there. You're not alone. And the One who started this process in you has promised to complete it.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01776508470403950920noreply@blogger.com