tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post5241731618916638692..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: SLAPPING DISORDERJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-63175331120468063412012-09-28T17:35:10.303-04:002012-09-28T17:35:10.303-04:00I needed to read this I have always done this when...I needed to read this I have always done this when frustared angry or upset but more so recently and i got caught doing it the other day i was gonna say i guess its now normal and it isnt but I am glad to know im not the only oneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-27588178576728864252011-05-08T02:58:21.040-04:002011-05-08T02:58:21.040-04:00We can be so self destructive in so many different...We can be so self destructive in so many different ways. The Lord has shown you your way. It takes courage to share these parts of ourselves, but it's often necessary for healing--healing within you and healing for those who read your story.<br />Thank you.<br />Blessings,<br />LynLynda R Young as Elle Cardyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975442291393246148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-46401675287251795072011-05-07T05:38:43.194-04:002011-05-07T05:38:43.194-04:00Leslie, appreciate your honesty in sharing. Sorry...Leslie, appreciate your honesty in sharing. Sorry that you do relate. (((Leslie))))<br /><br />Thank you all once again for your comments. All of you are truly special. Hugs to you all.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-51825215273229301392011-05-07T05:32:25.597-04:002011-05-07T05:32:25.597-04:00JBR, thanks for sharing this with us. I could so ...JBR, thanks for sharing this with us. I could so relate! I can't quite remember, but I am pretty sure I have done the same thing...slapping myself...in the past. I have definately "shut myself down" in other destructive ways as well. Thanks for sharing.Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15897067084988651970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-34622369372179982032011-05-06T17:35:33.682-04:002011-05-06T17:35:33.682-04:00Self injury appears to be a disorder that has both...Self injury appears to be a disorder that has both biological and behavioral components. The fact that antidepressant medications such as Celexa, Prozac, Paxil, Luvox, and Zoloft can, in many cases, relieve much of the urge to self injure there is strong evidence of an underlying neurochemical basis.I strongly believe in combining behavioral treatment with drug therapy. As in other obsessive-compulsive disorders, both appear to work better than either one alone. Medications may also be imperfect for some in terms of the side effects they produce. Sometimes these side effects prevent individuals from taking effectively high enough doses to lower their symptoms substantially. <br /><br />The dr.The drnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-63152943484400989132011-05-06T17:28:09.154-04:002011-05-06T17:28:09.154-04:00by all the comments i read it seems you are helpin...by all the comments i read it seems you are helping others in many ways besides yourself thru postin your feelings. Im proud of you and the help you give for others to be able to express themselves to you. what a gift that isAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-12162559132147785442011-05-06T13:02:34.859-04:002011-05-06T13:02:34.859-04:00I kne2w a woman who would do that. She'd just...I kne2w a woman who would do that. She'd just laugh and siad it made her feel better. Now I see that what dshe did was more dnamaging than she thought.good post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-4602212021773234732011-05-06T13:02:09.035-04:002011-05-06T13:02:09.035-04:00I kne2w a woman who would do that. She'd just...I kne2w a woman who would do that. She'd just laugh and siad it made her feel better. Now I see that what dshe did was more dnamaging than she thought.good post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-83944560154485167602011-05-06T12:54:27.124-04:002011-05-06T12:54:27.124-04:00Thank you for your post.Thank you for your post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-71740570531257604892011-05-06T12:50:36.054-04:002011-05-06T12:50:36.054-04:00Your last paragraph said the raw part of self-conf...Your last paragraph said the raw part of self-conflicting pain..Different people express it differently, but it's the root of pain.<br /><br />Wish you a great weekend!~✽Mumsy✽~https://www.blogger.com/profile/10644719969613080399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-12806136341736172752011-05-06T11:36:01.865-04:002011-05-06T11:36:01.865-04:00self injury in any form is so commom especially in...self injury in any form is so commom especially in women. Glad the light bulb went on and He's showing you love really does make the difference....His love. Stay strong.Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-45433539245225340302011-05-06T11:02:49.838-04:002011-05-06T11:02:49.838-04:00I continue to be amazed at your wisdom and your kn...I continue to be amazed at your wisdom and your knowledge of yourself as you go through this healing process. What breakthroughs you are having. I believe God is taking you all the way through to complete healing because that is what He wants for you. Keep up the good work.Peggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02766321902838500896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-33727268667613723892011-05-06T09:33:35.078-04:002011-05-06T09:33:35.078-04:00so very powerful
....I take wisdom from this
and t...so very powerful<br />....I take wisdom from this<br />and thank you for it.<br />Much love to all of you,<br />JenJennifer Richardsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04305032927925322733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-92111776981387736672011-05-06T08:44:51.550-04:002011-05-06T08:44:51.550-04:00I think that last paragraph is very wise, JBR. Tr...I think that last paragraph is very wise, JBR. Trichotillomania, eating disorders, other forms of self harm-- they do all stem from pain. I'm not sure if it's all the same pain, but it's pain nonetheless.<br /><br />I know it can be hard to treat yourself kindly, especially your "little" self. I think we often think "they" should know better, but really people make mistakes and expecting perfection is very unreasonable. Both Little and Big JBR are doing the best they can.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-16073526184834106302011-05-06T05:32:24.339-04:002011-05-06T05:32:24.339-04:00Thank you all for your encouraging words.Thank you all for your encouraging words.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-89866800630189730612011-05-05T22:57:45.579-04:002011-05-05T22:57:45.579-04:00JBR,
Big Flannery cuts deep and now I get an insig...JBR,<br />Big Flannery cuts deep and now I get an insight as to why. This really helped me. Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-61419344665070315762011-05-05T22:36:48.700-04:002011-05-05T22:36:48.700-04:00Wow JBR, this is very profound!!! One of these da...Wow JBR, this is very profound!!! One of these days the sensible, protecting part of JBR will be fully fused with the sensitive, caring part and this conflict will disappear. Very exciting news to have such understanding of an old behavior!WinnyNinny PooPoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237156887425609665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-67166876672345558592011-05-05T22:22:06.804-04:002011-05-05T22:22:06.804-04:00JBR,
Thank for being so open and honest with your ...JBR,<br />Thank for being so open and honest with your readers. I pray your words may help others who are going through similar trials. This sounds like a big breakthrough for you and I hope you continue to have many of these AHA! moments. May the peace of Christ surround you, my friend, as you continue to walk this path of healing. Hugs!!Mary N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618318192221168152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-45757092638175642622011-05-05T21:35:15.809-04:002011-05-05T21:35:15.809-04:00I have struggled with self harm for a long time. I...I have struggled with self harm for a long time. I guess I just want to punish myself for being alive. The little Wanda is buried so deep inside it is hard to let her know that it is OK to feel anything.<br /><br />Thank you so much for sharing this post JBR. I am glad you listen to the Holy Spirit.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-1150464077737618282011-05-05T21:28:49.893-04:002011-05-05T21:28:49.893-04:00JBR, this slap in the presence of your T. and the ...JBR, this slap in the presence of your T. and the insight gained was painful yet so revealing. I believe this will help Little JBR and the Big One too. Love from my heart to the Little Jbr and the Big JBR.Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241317042459836045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-47951724587675980692011-05-05T20:33:09.844-04:002011-05-05T20:33:09.844-04:00I GUESS I'M THE ONE THAT NEEDED TO READ THIS. ...I GUESS I'M THE ONE THAT NEEDED TO READ THIS. I'VE HIDDEN MY DISEASE FROM MY FAMILY I DRINK SOMETIMES JUST TO MAKE MYSELF PASS OUT WHEN I'M GOING THROUGH SOMETHING TO MUCH FOR ME TO HANDLE. I GUESS THIS CAN BE CONSIDERED SELF INJURY.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-41401729060340999252011-05-05T20:26:22.248-04:002011-05-05T20:26:22.248-04:00Break through! :)
God puts things together all in...Break through! :)<br /><br />God puts things together all in the right timing. I will be praying into this one sweet girl.<br /><br />Hugs,<br /><><child of Godhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11635805396738062444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-50404189877762392152011-05-05T20:05:02.716-04:002011-05-05T20:05:02.716-04:00JBR I don't pretend to know everything. I kno...JBR I don't pretend to know everything. I know that to some of us who've never experienced the absorbed obsession associated with intentionally injuring our bodies and have never gotten emotional relief in that<br />way, the whole idea may seem incomprehensible. <br /><br />Like so much human behavior, self-harm is, at first, hard to understand. I don't do it. Each<br />person of self-harm is unique, has a different history, a different set of personal<br />problems, and a different means of hurting him/herself. I agree that it's a disorder. Glad you made progress. Big progress. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-91349146885440048282011-05-05T19:37:18.352-04:002011-05-05T19:37:18.352-04:00well it sounds like forward movement in the realiz...well it sounds like forward movement in the realization and i imagine it will help someone to realise it as wellBrian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-73089694038422444862011-05-05T18:40:07.834-04:002011-05-05T18:40:07.834-04:00HI Debby. We did not know the dynamics of it. I ha...HI Debby. We did not know the dynamics of it. I have slapped myself before in front of her. We touched briefly on it in the past. But a few things fell into place right after another in this case today that made it more evident. Thanks for your comment.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.com