tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post56149232792602262..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: SEXUAL ABUSEJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-77981358694504766652010-06-25T03:51:10.272-04:002010-06-25T03:51:10.272-04:00It's not something that you'll ever be abl...It's not something that you'll ever be able to forget, nor even bury, but God's healing power is truly miraculous. You will be healed.Lynda R Young as Elle Cardyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975442291393246148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-58096579335513053522010-06-24T23:05:51.727-04:002010-06-24T23:05:51.727-04:00you are so making a difference!!!! ☺you are so making a difference!!!! ☺Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-36835384322477954282010-06-24T17:49:59.466-04:002010-06-24T17:49:59.466-04:00In timeIn timeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-21074783853240401822010-06-24T17:49:39.022-04:002010-06-24T17:49:39.022-04:00trwtrwAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-3936812710244416582010-06-24T16:27:18.086-04:002010-06-24T16:27:18.086-04:00What you and others have said, I didn't unders...What you and others have said, I didn't understand what was going on with me. I had no clue that my behaviour was linked to the past. You are doing good work. Keeping you in my thoughts.lostinamazehttp://inamaze.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-87506978136214046002010-06-24T10:50:13.609-04:002010-06-24T10:50:13.609-04:00Keep on healing and discovering the stronger you w...Keep on healing and discovering the stronger you within yourself.<br /><br />BMA Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-59233409259328283482010-06-24T08:25:11.598-04:002010-06-24T08:25:11.598-04:00JBR, you are doing maybe better then you think; lo...JBR, you are doing maybe better then you think; look how you can write about this, I believe this is a very important step in your recovery; as with any recovery there are ups and downs ... I pray so that you can find strength in the difficult moments when all of this feel so raw and hard on you! blessings dear one!!Birdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09891761282823761830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-32138569339176076812010-06-24T06:58:44.290-04:002010-06-24T06:58:44.290-04:00many of the kids i work with have been sexually ab...many of the kids i work with have been sexually abuse...most often by a family member...it is never easy...i pray that what was done to you does not keep you from understanding the one who can make you whole again.Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-30366590214185046242010-06-24T05:55:53.213-04:002010-06-24T05:55:53.213-04:00JBR your truth and sharing sets so many free. Han...JBR your truth and sharing sets so many free. Hang in there.stuck-in-the-middlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-87934502962582548932010-06-24T05:01:33.419-04:002010-06-24T05:01:33.419-04:00You've been through a lot.. such tough situati...You've been through a lot.. such tough situations..<br />May God's Grace always protect you!<br />HUGS!!<br />BettyBetty Manousoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08303786210034168108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-89876822248732809372010-06-24T04:26:13.017-04:002010-06-24T04:26:13.017-04:00I can relate to this post greatly. For much of my ...I can relate to this post greatly. For much of my early adult life, I felt guilt and shame for my own feelings of desiring intimacy. It interfered with my marriage, but I didn't know why I felt that way, until I began linking the past with my behavior. Since my husband was one to "fool around" in our marriage, I never felt he was a safe haven which left me very insecure, only adding more problems to my emotional state. Those issues were resolved within me with some soul searching and learning to accept my past and move forward with it. Wishing you peace and love... and keep moving forward JBR. Love and peace be with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-29814588552177280152010-06-24T01:38:58.406-04:002010-06-24T01:38:58.406-04:00Yeah it's tough. I don't feel comfortable...Yeah it's tough. I don't feel comfortable around many men at all...male friends and relatives, even teenage boys. I'm scared of them all. You are not alone and God loves you heaps.<br /><br />Amberambersunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05582546511382184025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-44172813510947411092010-06-24T01:08:40.443-04:002010-06-24T01:08:40.443-04:00I am so glad you found that unconditional love of ...I am so glad you found that unconditional love of Christ. I read a great devotional this week of restored furniture that looked as good as the original piece. It was a great picture of God's work in us!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />MarySaleslady371https://www.blogger.com/profile/15962608799409882219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-18072751292397111602010-06-23T23:55:14.931-04:002010-06-23T23:55:14.931-04:00Wow. I just went through a list I made with A abou...Wow. I just went through a list I made with A about things that I feel and think that never matured from the 13 year old that was hurt. Everything you listed above (and more). I forget sometimes how similar my thoughts and feelings are to others. Makes me feel less alone. JBR, your blog is always the first one I come to because you seem to know exactly how I feel. Word for word. And most of the time you put it into words before I even realize they could be my own. Thank you!Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06044336707596369037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-6095276859698178362010-06-23T22:06:03.942-04:002010-06-23T22:06:03.942-04:00There are so many innocents who have suffered sexu...There are so many innocents who have suffered sexual abuse. I pray God will bring them to a wholeness in their mind, body and spirit.<br /><br />PGOne Prayer Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17455437909918314217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-91942636185580239152010-06-23T21:19:56.532-04:002010-06-23T21:19:56.532-04:00Sexual abuse that happen to me several years ago s...Sexual abuse that happen to me several years ago still has an effect on my life. I see God healing you and think you are an amazing woman. May God continue to heal you. You deserve a life of peace.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-10415810358831801072010-06-23T20:56:19.150-04:002010-06-23T20:56:19.150-04:00As usual, your words speak to me. speak the truth...As usual, your words speak to me. speak the truth....from your loving heartGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-20133322179606598722010-06-23T20:30:16.405-04:002010-06-23T20:30:16.405-04:00May God renew and refresh you.May God renew and refresh you.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-30624367423654937392010-06-23T19:33:56.135-04:002010-06-23T19:33:56.135-04:00JBR,
You have suffered a lot of trauma in your lif...JBR,<br />You have suffered a lot of trauma in your life and I pray the Lord continues to heal these wounds and bring peace to your heart. God bless you, my friend.Mary N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618318192221168152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-55470442227984120452010-06-23T19:00:53.733-04:002010-06-23T19:00:53.733-04:00JBR I pray that God will heal your wounded heart. ...JBR I pray that God will heal your wounded heart. JBR in time as you meditate on God and his word let God's word correct your feelings about sex.<br /><br />You know we live in a very sinful world. If we associate sex with shame and abuse, it's only because of what the sinful world has done to it. God says sex is good. He doesnt want us to see it as bad. I know your trying to connect and your right your not where you were last year. It may take longer to convince you or your emotions right now. But God is a great healer. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-20543159827210763502010-06-23T18:55:39.009-04:002010-06-23T18:55:39.009-04:00JBR, I am so sorry you had to endure what you had ...JBR, I am so sorry you had to endure what you had to endure. It's certainly a horrible, horrible thing. But I think even though it still has an effect on you, you are recovering. Feeling irritable and frustrated is a step in the right direction because it is FEELING. You're doing great.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com