tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post6446808286184031513..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: BEATING MYSELF UPJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-44970248652017266582011-07-27T17:18:06.752-04:002011-07-27T17:18:06.752-04:00As time goes on you will definitely move forward a...As time goes on you will definitely move forward and not be so hard on yourself. So glad you are recognizing it. It is not easy to break a habit we have been doing for many years.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-37706478628502872632011-07-27T06:06:22.931-04:002011-07-27T06:06:22.931-04:00Hey, don't do that to my friend! (((hugs))) ...Hey, don't do that to my friend! (((hugs))) I'm so glad you are catching yourself and not walking deeper into the abuse. You deserve happiness, love, grace, and acceptance -- even with yourself. (Did that even make sense? It did in my head.)<br /><br />I pray this will be a good day for you!<br /><br />Love,<br />BethBeth in NChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17492590083823556624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-62542338347509898512011-07-27T06:01:23.733-04:002011-07-27T06:01:23.733-04:00Oh JBR. My heart goes out to you. May you find c...Oh JBR. My heart goes out to you. May you find comfort in him first and then yourself. You're so worthy. Praying one day you really see this. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-34528344857951136922011-07-27T02:43:20.204-04:002011-07-27T02:43:20.204-04:00JBR, I am praying for you in this. The things we ...JBR, I am praying for you in this. The things we say to ourselves are sometimes the most harmful, aren't they? Hugs to you.Colleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13564805397010089954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-24620244139425229962011-07-26T22:32:29.077-04:002011-07-26T22:32:29.077-04:00We can be our own worst enemies.We can be our own worst enemies.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-71594530924105573812011-07-26T16:56:12.744-04:002011-07-26T16:56:12.744-04:00I've said it before, like a deep wound that ne...I've said it before, like a deep wound that needs its scab removed, the process may be painful but it is a way of making it heal. May the Lord's grace sustain you for your healing inside out. God bless.RCUBEshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03726426726039665564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-30138314421427445882011-07-26T15:49:53.546-04:002011-07-26T15:49:53.546-04:00That you are noticing it more quickly and trying t...That you are noticing it more quickly and trying to put a halt to it is a good sign, JBR. Sometimes the mind is such a battlefield, especially for those who were raised in dysfunctional households or have been gravely injured psychologically. The devil preys on our weak points. Still, the grace of God is so much more powerful. Capture the negative thoughts in Christ and read the Scriptures that speak of God's love - this can be a tremendous avenue of healing. The Word of God is powerful! Hugs to you, my friend. I am praying.Mary N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618318192221168152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-39040316561236407132011-07-26T13:07:56.170-04:002011-07-26T13:07:56.170-04:00You are awesome and wonderfully made. There will c...You are awesome and wonderfully made. There will come a time where you realize what others think doesn't matter. It's all about you and God. And God loves you unconditionally.Middle Childnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-61457996235138407942011-07-26T12:22:52.545-04:002011-07-26T12:22:52.545-04:00Oh My God I'm sorry you do this to yourself. ...Oh My God I'm sorry you do this to yourself. But understanding the reaSons behind your actions I hope.Sometimes I Want To Give Uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16741802733629778129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-43018503465180246752011-07-26T10:35:09.774-04:002011-07-26T10:35:09.774-04:00GIRL YOU ARE GROWING SO MUCH. SELF REALIZATOIN IS...GIRL YOU ARE GROWING SO MUCH. SELF REALIZATOIN IS ALL PART OF THE PLAN. BEING GENTLE WITH YOURSELF IS WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT AS YOU HEAL.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-64309788536725889972011-07-26T10:32:54.720-04:002011-07-26T10:32:54.720-04:00HI JBR - It is good you know when you are being un...HI JBR - It is good you know when you are being unfair to yourself. Life is unfair enough without us dding to it!! Those old tapes in your head need to be erased and replaced with validations of YOU!<br />Love Gail<br />peace.....Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337675996256691215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-42179378638761126382011-07-26T10:22:06.460-04:002011-07-26T10:22:06.460-04:00Just stopping by to give you a big HUG. Keep up th...Just stopping by to give you a big HUG. Keep up the good work.Finding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-47690393045272675132011-07-26T10:15:03.216-04:002011-07-26T10:15:03.216-04:00Great you are recognizing when you are beating up ...Great you are recognizing when you are beating up little JBR. I find also it's a difficult thing to recognize. take careEllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15741118126298552722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-13672437448488292482011-07-26T10:14:35.236-04:002011-07-26T10:14:35.236-04:00Would you say those things to anyone else? Would y...Would you say those things to anyone else? Would you ever treat someone even if they made a mistake like that? This kind of assault is a way of keeping us from finding the peace and love God offers his children. <br /><br />We can't spread love and peace to others when we don't even feel it for ourselves. Don't take the bait just accept the love God offers you and know you are his perfect child.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-69148997541119098542011-07-26T09:47:44.818-04:002011-07-26T09:47:44.818-04:00Sounds like the devil is having a field day in you...Sounds like the devil is having a field day in your soul. Know that Christ in you can overcome ANYTHING . . . don't ever believe otherwise. And when the enemy rushes in like a flood, just tell Him it's Your God that parts the waters!<br />Blessings, praying for you,<br />CherieCherie Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14560483336790854099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-41143606637894087342011-07-26T09:23:50.366-04:002011-07-26T09:23:50.366-04:00Every part of you deserves to be treated well-- bo...Every part of you deserves to be treated well-- both Little and Big JBR. It's so hard to be kind to ourselves sometimes, but here's a trick that sometimes works for me: when you are beating yourself up over something, ask yourself "Would I say the same thing to my best friend if he/she had done this?" If the answer is no, then it's likely that you're being too hard on yourself. Wishing you well, NOSNOSnoreply@blogger.com