tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post7494016250795914082..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: FALSE GUILTJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-63313256483425149232012-09-23T13:39:17.943-04:002012-09-23T13:39:17.943-04:00I always enjoy the quotes and articles you post - ...I always enjoy the quotes and articles you post - they are always so beneficial to where I am headed, and usually help me to understand why I'm feeling the way that I am. Thank you :0)Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05166689236909570817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-56367167441348388752012-09-23T06:05:54.475-04:002012-09-23T06:05:54.475-04:00Dear one appreciate you sharing and the effects OC...Dear one appreciate you sharing and the effects OCD has on you. Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-33159577549331234952012-09-23T06:04:55.447-04:002012-09-23T06:04:55.447-04:00Dayor thank you for coming around.Dayor thank you for coming around.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-63992748824493652062012-09-23T06:04:12.765-04:002012-09-23T06:04:12.765-04:00Hugs to you my dear....Hugs to you my dear....Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-58255558504403820012012-09-23T06:03:48.410-04:002012-09-23T06:03:48.410-04:00BhS, glad this post was some benefit to you. I am...BhS, glad this post was some benefit to you. I am sorry that you suffer with false guilt as well. But we know we can overcome! Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-38556713972270328682012-09-23T06:03:01.328-04:002012-09-23T06:03:01.328-04:00Tina, I appreciate your visit and comment. Blessi...Tina, I appreciate your visit and comment. Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-9846521729373710322012-09-23T06:02:34.218-04:002012-09-23T06:02:34.218-04:00Lisa, thank you so much for your comment and visit...Lisa, thank you so much for your comment and visit. Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-56198674901305426572012-09-22T20:24:28.233-04:002012-09-22T20:24:28.233-04:00False guilt affects us all. A good article, too.False guilt affects us all. A good article, too.Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14577919062812348914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-22971239867144568892012-09-22T20:23:03.089-04:002012-09-22T20:23:03.089-04:00Just Be Real I came by tonight to your blog and on...Just Be Real I came by tonight to your blog and once again I could hardly believe my eyes because today I was dealing with the consequence of false guilt I have taken on my shoulders over a situation that happened to me and it is a guilt that is not mine to hold. I was wrestling with this in my prayers this morning and I have to conciously shake that guilt off my shoulders saying not my guilt. I too had a very controlling mother and I totally can relate to doing as you were told and expected-it is a very hard thing to do to stand up against your mother and it also depended on your living/financial circumstance and so on. A safe hug to you. Blessings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-39286501316452222042012-09-22T14:26:25.761-04:002012-09-22T14:26:25.761-04:00Excellent and insightful post. It describes me, th...Excellent and insightful post. It describes me, that's for sure. Tina Fariss Barbourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15659018994558471570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-38004813306551806262012-09-22T14:17:32.419-04:002012-09-22T14:17:32.419-04:00I think this can effect all of us from time to tim...I think this can effect all of us from time to time.Lisa @ Two Bears Farmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03464839163693785901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-68339988709260317272012-09-22T13:27:04.623-04:002012-09-22T13:27:04.623-04:00Oh my you poor thing. I'm sorry that you were...Oh my you poor thing. I'm sorry that you were put threw all of this. Yaza doozy.Sometimes I Want To Give Uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16741802733629778129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-58918673695993622422012-09-22T13:24:18.612-04:002012-09-22T13:24:18.612-04:00Great post JBRGreat post JBRAmritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04887884977787790642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-6580605681132446952012-09-22T00:25:47.508-04:002012-09-22T00:25:47.508-04:00Thanks for being so opened.Thanks for being so opened.Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-577891004975593652012-09-21T18:42:01.991-04:002012-09-21T18:42:01.991-04:00This is very deep. I need time to process it myse...This is very deep. I need time to process it myself! Thank you for your bravery in sharing!Dontmissyoursunsetladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02837332668019832243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-32765564525478441422012-09-21T18:19:55.329-04:002012-09-21T18:19:55.329-04:00oh my gosh!
i can't thank you enough
for this!...oh my gosh!<br />i can't thank you enough<br />for this!<br />so very needed<br />by this tired pup.<br />love and freedom,<br />JenniferJennifer Richardsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04305032927925322733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-25123858200803200172012-09-21T11:57:27.143-04:002012-09-21T11:57:27.143-04:00EXCELLENT POST JBR. READING OVER SOME OF THE COMM...EXCELLENT POST JBR. READING OVER SOME OF THE COMMENTS I NOTICED A SIMILARITY AND COHESIVENESS IN EVERYONE'S RESPONSE. INTERESTING.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-36338922886815653012012-09-21T11:38:16.945-04:002012-09-21T11:38:16.945-04:00Wow! This is so eye opening! That article was su...Wow! This is so eye opening! That article was super informative and the light and bug analogy made so much sense to me. Thanks for sharing! Many blessings!BelovedBomberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04547459653981778139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-83185816857714359612012-09-21T11:36:02.414-04:002012-09-21T11:36:02.414-04:00JBR as difficult your journey seems at time, you&#...JBR as difficult your journey seems at time, you're right where you're supposed to be. That article and your words put false guilt into perspective. You could not of explained it any clearer. Thanks and God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-45432306002767517272012-09-21T11:01:56.065-04:002012-09-21T11:01:56.065-04:00Hey Grace,
This is an awesome post! I love the art...Hey Grace,<br />This is an awesome post! I love the article. It explains it very well. :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />TammyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-27547816054158632782012-09-21T10:05:24.874-04:002012-09-21T10:05:24.874-04:00Everybody is different and the way the Lord works ...Everybody is different and the way the Lord works depends on what He sees is needed first and foremost. I had a brother taking psychology; he encouraged me to read his book, stating it would help me understand the human mind and how it worked. It did not; it only gave me more influence over worldly philosophies. The Bible tells us to avoid worldly philosophies.<br /><br />We forget that bugs are also drawn to the sun light, to light. They are drawn to the Creator’s light or imitations of Him. Bugs are not self aware (conscience), so they are not like human beings. To make an assumption on animal behavior for human behavior is an insult to animals and the Creator alike. No animal created the bomb, or any of the other inhuman behavior.<br /><br />God created mankind above the other kinds, most worldly philosophies assume evolution is proven fact and it is not, so their premises are faulty at best to begin with. The enemy of our soul understand human behavior better than man for he has been tricking man for over 6,000 years beginning in the Garden of Eden with “Did God really say?” The enemy of our soul also parades about as an angel of light, Scripture tells us.<br /><br />God gave us a conscience to help us understand the laws He had written on our hearts, the enemy knows how to take those words of manipulation, intimidation and domination and twist them for his deeds, the enemy knows how to trick mankind into a seared conscience.<br /><br />The simply answer to past hurts is the Word of God, the way to a whole and right conscience is by renewing your mind daily in His Word. My father and two other relative sexually abused me for 8 years. All the “Christian” counseling serve to do for me, was confuse God Words with man’s opinion. When the Lord got hold of me with the true understanding of salvation and the new creation in Him I had become, which is what started the healing.<br /><br />The more I read God’s Word, the Bible the more, the more healing happened and the more I understood the sin nature of man and his free will. When I understood we are born spiritually dead, and have to be born again, born spiritually alive, through faith in what Christ did on the cross, which is when I begin to forgive my father and the others and began healing. I understood, it was not an over active conscience or guilty conscience, but a learned behavior, which became unlearned by the renewing of my mind by God’s Words. <br /><br />God made it easy for us, He did all the work, read the Bible and God will heal the rest, no long explanations, just you and God’s Word. I had a reading disorder and cried out to God, that I did not understand what I read, He caused me to be able to learn His Word to the point I have been asked several times to speak to pastors and minister on how to help those affected by sexual abuse. It is a process and how long it takes depends on how much courage, you receive, through God’s Words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84542161175872047262012-09-21T08:12:26.684-04:002012-09-21T08:12:26.684-04:00Hmmm, thanks for sharing.
Very well saidHmmm, thanks for sharing.<br /><br />Very well saiddayorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04464749657251751761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-36758051339646776392012-09-21T04:24:15.251-04:002012-09-21T04:24:15.251-04:00Hi JBR,
I would see the lightbulb more as Jesus, a...Hi JBR,<br />I would see the lightbulb more as Jesus, and all coming to Him. If I was to feel any guilt or pressure about anything then two things in particular speak to me, they were scriptures that the Lord implanted in my long ago and have remained strong. They are 'take every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ' to which I examine my thoughts and know whether they conflict with what I know God has been saying to me, and as far as pressure from others to do certain things is concerned Job says 'I will maintain my own ways for a hypocrite shall not come before the Lord.' If anything is to be done the Lord will show you if you seek Him.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16165344093549650260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-67190907196482754252012-09-21T03:42:37.899-04:002012-09-21T03:42:37.899-04:00oh, i get this... i feel it too. obligation. expec...oh, i get this... i feel it too. obligation. expectation. guilty if you do, guilty if you don't... thanks, great post!Shadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05999801833389058410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-73060449583551547172012-09-20T23:05:39.717-04:002012-09-20T23:05:39.717-04:00Hi JBR. I feel like this post was written for me. ...Hi JBR. I feel like this post was written for me. Particularly the last line, "Unrelenting efforts to meet the expectations of others can have some very negative consequences." False guilt and an overactive conscious have both had a huge impact on my OCD. I feel like they were the fuel for a lot of my illness. I also think one of my core issues is a desperate desire to be loved and accepted. I think I would have had OCD regardless of these issues, but they sure contributed to making things worse.<br /><br />I wish you well as you seek to throw off the chains of false guilt too.71º & Sunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09981113989131619635noreply@blogger.com