tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post8683322269871063140..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: I HUNG UP ON MY MUM THIS MORNINGJust Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-67109904605844128552010-08-28T22:49:56.477-04:002010-08-28T22:49:56.477-04:00Trials never go away..but we can cling to the rock...Trials never go away..but we can cling to the rock that is higher than us and He is always there so we don't slip..Looks like you have a lot of support and love here on blogger..Blessings!sunny smileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214425044850350417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-15676950985706848392010-08-24T10:46:38.974-04:002010-08-24T10:46:38.974-04:00Parents can be a handful. Your mom is making you r...Parents can be a handful. Your mom is making you responsible for her happiness in a very toxic way. Good for you to stand up to an emotional bully.keishuahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15425697524293318047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-73394929708920399602010-08-24T07:25:46.726-04:002010-08-24T07:25:46.726-04:00JBR,
Thinking and praying for you. Sending you a ...JBR,<br />Thinking and praying for you. Sending you a big hug.<br />(((JBR)))<br /><br />Blessings,<br />TammyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-20507610730371665102010-08-23T23:49:33.373-04:002010-08-23T23:49:33.373-04:00JBR,
After looking back on your previous posts I...JBR, <br /><br />After looking back on your previous posts I have come to realize that the enemy is working through your mom to find ways to bringing down and wearing you thin. Praying for protection for you and guarding your heart and minds from his poison words. Praying for God to show you insight and wisdom into what is really going on.<br /><br />Love and Hugs ~ KatHeart2Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05240536955573366802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-48865808814734803382010-08-23T22:53:23.216-04:002010-08-23T22:53:23.216-04:00You did good, girl....You did good, girl....Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08788724686085310730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-89275619761229006622010-08-23T21:29:54.811-04:002010-08-23T21:29:54.811-04:00Good for you. Be strong
You certainly can't l...Good for you. Be strong<br /><br />You certainly can't let her hurt you.<br />No child deserves this kind a treatment from their mother.A Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-28844715662391663252010-08-23T21:19:30.120-04:002010-08-23T21:19:30.120-04:00Hurray for you. Sounds like you took care of yours...Hurray for you. Sounds like you took care of yourself and did it in as kind a way as you could and she would allow.<br /><br />Keep up the good work gal.<br /><br />PGOne Prayer Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17455437909918314217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84046340694767151682010-08-23T17:17:57.605-04:002010-08-23T17:17:57.605-04:00this is an amazing post i could not of written it...this is an amazing post i could not of written it any plainer what you've shared has been my life had other sisters to in my family who got the same treatment from our parents mainly our mother with guilt trips this post is an encouagement and what you have shared certainly helps and confirms that i'm not the only one that what i was told about myself being a looney is not truth you shared truth here today deborahdeborahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-59800658361769260722010-08-23T17:10:46.393-04:002010-08-23T17:10:46.393-04:00I had to make a similar decision like this about m...I had to make a similar decision like this about my maternal grandmother a few weeks ago because she told me that I was an embarassment to her just because I am not living in fear of her just as many other family members are. She does the guilt thing as well.<br /><br />I feel ya!<br /><br />smooches,<br />LarieLarie Carlice Proverbs 27:19https://www.blogger.com/profile/01979040461575715284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-4724606203544449642010-08-23T16:54:35.483-04:002010-08-23T16:54:35.483-04:00guilt trips from a loved one is probably one of th...guilt trips from a loved one is probably one of the most difficult things to learn to deal with. I'm so glad you aren't crumbling under the pressure anymore. Yep, it's still hard and I believe it will always be hard (sorry), but God will continue to give you strength and He will continue to work with your mother as well.Lynda R Young as Elle Cardyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975442291393246148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-38675668292148385292010-08-23T16:38:54.952-04:002010-08-23T16:38:54.952-04:00Praise God for giving you the strength to speak up...Praise God for giving you the strength to speak up. I am praying for you.marielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14478545338026697454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84615110340830871802010-08-23T13:00:47.136-04:002010-08-23T13:00:47.136-04:00i know it was not easy...the phone is a terrible p...i know it was not easy...the phone is a terrible place for confrontation or trying to gain any resolution...no i think you may have done the right thing...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-62838614396086443072010-08-23T12:22:49.924-04:002010-08-23T12:22:49.924-04:00OMG, JBR! I can hardly believe how EXACTLY much t...OMG, JBR! I can hardly believe how EXACTLY much this sounds like my own mother. I think you handled this incredibly well. When it's all about her, it is so difficult to even think straight and maintain your sanity, you know?<br /><br />I THINK YOU DID GREAT!<br /><br />The only thing I might add is that the next time she says something like "don't you feel guilty and aren't you ashamed?" I would try to say, "No! As a matter of fact, I don't. For once in my life around you, I'm starting to feel HEALTHY!"<br /><br />Safe hugs, sweetheart. ((((((((((JBR)))))))))))Marj aka Thriverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825698906631474866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-71618867396718687482010-08-23T11:11:44.917-04:002010-08-23T11:11:44.917-04:00Wow, good for you! It must have been so difficult...Wow, good for you! It must have been so difficult hanging up on her, but you asserted your boundaries beautifully! You should be proud. I am.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-20801316507427891722010-08-23T10:59:43.211-04:002010-08-23T10:59:43.211-04:00Yes do believe you did what you have to....with Mo...Yes do believe you did what you have to....with Mom. Hope it gets better<br />kimKim@stuffcould....https://www.blogger.com/profile/03566751822418137457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-71500946596005779802010-08-23T10:56:05.273-04:002010-08-23T10:56:05.273-04:00Way to go!Way to go!Wanda's Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-28619854963104089682010-08-23T10:11:33.452-04:002010-08-23T10:11:33.452-04:00that is so wonderful. JBR, so very well done! You ...that is so wonderful. JBR, so very well done! You stood your ground. Surely she doesnt hear you. She isnt used to it and a few times is NOTHING compared years before. If she ever get it, I dont know. This journey is about YOU: Like she isnt used to the new way, your guilt isnt used to it either. It takes some exercise and determination to keep trying to overcome guilt and shame! For me you have done GREAT. You can be proud of you. Mill of hugs to you. SO very glad that you stood your ground. And very well executed. WOWPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241317042459836045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-73055131873894923152010-08-23T10:06:33.701-04:002010-08-23T10:06:33.701-04:00Fantastic. I know its hard because that's all ...Fantastic. I know its hard because that's all you are use to. IN time things will be better. You have set an example for many of us to follow. ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-17276103250937710852010-08-23T09:20:57.151-04:002010-08-23T09:20:57.151-04:00I couldnt of've done it any better. Don';...I couldnt of've done it any better. Don';t let the guilt ride you. It will kill you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-79326558665190329082010-08-23T09:19:38.006-04:002010-08-23T09:19:38.006-04:00Well done, you.
And you can totally trust the Lor...Well done, you.<br />And you can totally trust the Lord <br />to comfort her and sort this out<br />as only He can.<br />You're free to go about your day with peace<br />and joy.<br />You loved her well.<br />-JenniferJennifer Richardsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04305032927925322733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-70496356949231698902010-08-23T08:50:39.252-04:002010-08-23T08:50:39.252-04:00Guilt is what people who manipulate others want yo...Guilt is what people who manipulate others want you to feel. A mother should be glad she raised a child who WANTS to go to church rather than try to make her sit (at your age) under her thumb. I think to myself, what was she going to do, give you cheerios if you were a good girl and quiet, like a three year old? Good job JBR. I probably would have hung up before you did!WinnyNinny PooPoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237156887425609665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-86902262749003457242010-08-23T08:02:34.144-04:002010-08-23T08:02:34.144-04:00You did the right thing.You did the right thing.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-43450033723724478272010-08-23T07:56:40.635-04:002010-08-23T07:56:40.635-04:00Sweetie sweetie I agree totally what the others sa...Sweetie sweetie I agree totally what the others say here. You did good. Probably something coming for a long time. Each battle you win you defeat the enemy more and more. Proud of you sweetie.Dee Deenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-68169124995169885862010-08-23T07:54:32.122-04:002010-08-23T07:54:32.122-04:00I know that this was so hard for you to do and tha...I know that this was so hard for you to do and that it troubles your heart...but it is a right and healthy thing to do. You have to end the madness. May the Lord bless and keep you and may He make His wonderful healing light to shine upon you. <br /><br />Always forward!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01998973805998600350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-53526125379949526572010-08-23T07:16:13.081-04:002010-08-23T07:16:13.081-04:00JBR well done. Such growth for you. Hang in ther...JBR well done. Such growth for you. Hang in there.stuck-in-the-middlenoreply@blogger.com