tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post945074614938591166..comments2024-03-26T15:29:51.944-04:00Comments on Just Be Real: SO MUCH SHAME!!!Just Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-84748295519311378032010-10-17T19:34:27.926-04:002010-10-17T19:34:27.926-04:00I do understand that 'little JBR' and the ...I do understand that 'little JBR' and the shame. Not being able to look at your counselor, covering your eyes. I remember it so well, from my early part of my walk with Jesus, as He set about unraveling the mess in my heart.<br /><br />I didn't endure the extent of the abuse you have gone through, and some of it was self-inflicted when I was older, but shame is shame, and it wants to hide in the darkness. The best cure and deliverance is the light. As you are doing; bringing it to the light (He is Light). <br /><br />Well done and keep going precious one...Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14563139025664400793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-59283766465227449112010-08-20T09:24:06.698-04:002010-08-20T09:24:06.698-04:00I am proud of you. You have the courage to type th...I am proud of you. You have the courage to type this own. You know you weren't wrong. You're strong. VERY VERY STRONG.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-57826525159479020332010-03-15T08:14:51.583-04:002010-03-15T08:14:51.583-04:00As human beings we are not meant to carry such a h...As human beings we are not meant to carry such a heavey burden of shame or guilt on our own. Thank you for sharing your incredible healing journey with me for I am know that you have helped so many by your honesty.<br /><br />God is love, you are loved by so many.<br />Peace and much love.<br />PamFinding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-61286259102607044182010-03-15T07:48:59.851-04:002010-03-15T07:48:59.851-04:00JBR....I wish so much that there was some magical ...JBR....I wish so much that there was some magical thing I could say...some words of wisdom that would help in year healing....but I'm really bad at saying the right thing. Just know that I think you are one of the most brave people I know of! I have no idea personally what it's like to face what you're facing. But I see your determination, your vulnerability and I am in awe. I read your blog all thet time but I rarely comment...just simply because it doesn't seem right to comment on something I know nothing about. <br />You are never far from my mind...and my prayers.<br />Thank you for sharing your story...thanks for helping others (mostly me)to become more aware.<br />I hope you have a very good and healthy week.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08703752271069054710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-25987196677956185732010-03-14T20:57:56.760-04:002010-03-14T20:57:56.760-04:00God is patient. And so are we. As helpful as talki...God is patient. And so are we. As helpful as talking is, there is time for silence, peace and introspection. Don't feel obligated to push yourself past something you feel ready to do for us. We want the best for you. We are patient, too.<br /><br />Your healing in so many ways, JBR. I am praying for you!Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06044336707596369037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-737151591236132152010-03-14T20:42:19.402-04:002010-03-14T20:42:19.402-04:00Sorry if I offended you with my recent post. I did...Sorry if I offended you with my recent post. I didn't have many followers and just realized you stopped following me. I wish you the best on this journey and will pray for your complete healing. ((Hugs)) and love in Christ.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-76338144007534270112010-03-14T19:59:06.005-04:002010-03-14T19:59:06.005-04:00Thank you for sharing. I've found that isolati...Thank you for sharing. I've found that isolation is seldom the answer. Big hugs to you my friend. What you are doing is hard.Kathy M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17266701533758183054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-16153697213503633892010-03-14T17:43:10.646-04:002010-03-14T17:43:10.646-04:00Returning to support your with more encouragement....Returning to support your with more encouragement. Hoping your weekend was a good one and that you're loved by many and God espeically. God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-29736226101078379402010-03-14T17:39:04.746-04:002010-03-14T17:39:04.746-04:00Praying for you.Praying for you.Kimhttp://prayerforhealing.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-37600004408535860992010-03-14T17:30:17.292-04:002010-03-14T17:30:17.292-04:00Thinking of you. HUGSThinking of you. HUGSPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241317042459836045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-32026226960234421592010-03-14T14:03:22.685-04:002010-03-14T14:03:22.685-04:00It really is good to talk about things, that's...It really is good to talk about things, that's the road to healing. Just keep speaking positive things outloud, about how God sees you, and remember that He loves you so very much!Deborah Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14415814125499548149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-77366666475563731252010-03-14T12:15:32.421-04:002010-03-14T12:15:32.421-04:00The child's shame, brought into the light and ...The child's shame, brought into the light and seen for what it is, will shrink steadily, until finally you are strengthened by what happened to you, rather than defeated. So it was for me, with the help of a good therapist and a faith in God's love and acceptance.Enchanted Oakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14815997287116818456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-66775345889345971792010-03-14T09:15:48.798-04:002010-03-14T09:15:48.798-04:00hi jbr, i'm so sorry you had to go through so ...hi jbr, i'm so sorry you had to go through so much pain. shame certainly is painful and is a way that abuse continues in such a terrible way. we feel that there's something wrong with us because of what happened. it's such a sad and unjust feeling. <br /><br />i'm glad to see you have so many bloggers who support and love you~ and i know you have strong faith. you are certainly not alone. <br /><br />wishing you well~me as i amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14709343968813770150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-61003622518562174632010-03-14T06:39:44.260-04:002010-03-14T06:39:44.260-04:00Hi My sweet sister,
I just wanted to give you a ((...Hi My sweet sister,<br />I just wanted to give you a ((( Hugz))) and let you know that I continue to pray for a healing as you go through the many rooms of your soul. Remember you are fearfully and wonderfully made by the great physician himself Jesus Christ.<br /><br />Hugz LorieJoyfulsisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13288063897551319116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-60812679696747405342010-03-14T06:29:40.915-04:002010-03-14T06:29:40.915-04:00Hi JBR,
Great post, and it rings a lot of bells wi...Hi JBR,<br />Great post, and it rings a lot of bells with me. "Little JBR' took on the critical spirit of her 'earthly daddy' blaming herself." That was me as well, even after reaching adulthood, I kept that critical spirit process going on every time I blew it or made a mistake.<br /><br />And it is so awesome that God is so patient in bringing about our healing and release from such issues.Peter Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04896115247438514660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-64847026476590344952010-03-14T01:22:34.097-05:002010-03-14T01:22:34.097-05:00Thanks for sharing, JBR. Tough stuff, for sure. H...Thanks for sharing, JBR. Tough stuff, for sure. Hang in there and be gentle with yourself. angJournal of Healinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08888880691764691538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-40288345634482765202010-03-13T20:20:28.220-05:002010-03-13T20:20:28.220-05:00JBR has it ever occurred to you to believe that G...JBR has it ever occurred to you to believe that God can take your failures and your past and use them to encourage and bless others?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-10804183049780332872010-03-13T20:14:07.053-05:002010-03-13T20:14:07.053-05:00Dear JBR-- with all that you have experienced, and...Dear JBR-- with all that you have experienced, and all that you are experiencing in order to be whole again, I simply say thank you, for allowing us to see your process to wholeness! God is such a mighty God! He heals all pain--the most difficult and those like mine that are not so difficult as I thought. I thank God for your honesty and I know that you bless many lives. We humans suffer many types of pain. But not all of us are honest enough to share that pain. It's amazing how God can even use the pain we suffer and turn it to blessings that actually helps others! Thank you for your honest testimony! I know for sure that God is blessing you and strengthening you through your very, very difficult path to completeness in Him. Praise the Lord from who all blessings flow! Without Him there is no healing! Thank You Lord that You made a way for healing for all--for me and especially for JBR!!Anna Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14614002862475111740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-11573012854159618592010-03-13T20:07:10.585-05:002010-03-13T20:07:10.585-05:00There is nothing wrong with you, dear, sweet frien...There is nothing wrong with you, dear, sweet friend. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus. God so loves you and the Holy Spirit is committed to your healing. God shines His light in all the dark corners of our soul and with that light the enemy must flee. Writing and blogging is your way to let out the hurt. Let the Lord lead you in continuing your journey. <br />love, in Jesus,<br />DebraDebra@CommonGroundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04830455848744270459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-83297163754150255082010-03-13T15:48:47.835-05:002010-03-13T15:48:47.835-05:00So proud of you JBR, what you felt is not nearly a...So proud of you JBR, what you felt is not nearly as important as what you did... faced it down and opened one more place in your heart to His healing... it's a process, and you are moving forward! <br /><br />Hugs!http://bitsandpieces-sonja.blogspot.com/https://www.blogger.com/profile/09254831447887637714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-50689704520904759092010-03-13T13:21:31.535-05:002010-03-13T13:21:31.535-05:00Praying for you that Jesus touches you.Praying for you that Jesus touches you.Jaspernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-41325537393224387082010-03-13T09:52:08.267-05:002010-03-13T09:52:08.267-05:00as Heidi said...your courage inspires...keep going...as Heidi said...your courage inspires...keep going...JBR...I'm glad you're here...I'm thankful for your honesty and transperancy.Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-18593369985085495332010-03-13T08:36:44.032-05:002010-03-13T08:36:44.032-05:00I'd be afraid. Your courage inspires me but I...I'd be afraid. Your courage inspires me but I don't think I could do what your doing. Possibly one day. Keep going. HeidiHeidinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-4156394198535879312010-03-13T06:52:35.088-05:002010-03-13T06:52:35.088-05:00I just wanted to stop by and thank for you comment...I just wanted to stop by and thank for you commenting on my weightloss blog. But when I read your info in your profile, I now want to say thank you! I too am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, verbal abuse, and so much more. It is something that takes a lifetime to recover from, and it looks like your doing a wonderful job at that (even when it might not feel like it).One Pretty Little Boxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156117047807454970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4349731646274826596.post-41779930686075739962010-03-13T00:15:59.701-05:002010-03-13T00:15:59.701-05:00JBR: I feel anger that your childhood was stolen ...JBR: I feel anger that your childhood was stolen and you were made to feel fear & responsibility for the neglect/abuse you suffered. You matter in this world, there is no shame in being a victim. You are a survivor who needs to be proud that you are working through very deeply rooted feelings, work that requires a lot of strength. Hang in there, you are in my prayers...WinnyNinny PooPoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237156887425609665noreply@blogger.com