"You will show me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy, at Your right hand there are pleasures forevermore."
Psalm 16:11
"God comes to our lonely, anxious hearts and whispers our name. God says "I see both the fear you have of closeness and the deep longing you have to belong. I have come to comfort you and to respond to your need. I have been seeking a relationship with you. You belong. You belong to me. You are my child."

Sunday

CLENCHED FISTS


When I saw this prayer and the line about the clenched fists I thought about myself. Because more often than not, I usually have both my fists closed. I remember even my mother making mention of my clenched fists when I was a teenager.

The clenched fists of mine have that underlining meaning of holding back my emotional pain. The prayer shares exactly what letting go of the pain will do.


"Dear God,
I am so afraid to open my clenched fists!
Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to?
Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands?
Please help me to gradually open my hands
and to discover that I am not what I own,
but what you want to give me.
And what you want to give me is love,
unconditional, everlasting love.
Amen."
— Henri J.M. Nouwen


12 Real Comments:

  1. Amen Amen...So true.....
    Draw strenght from His Love on the Journey and season you are now in
    Take care and know you are in my prayers!

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  2. INTERESTING OBSERVATION JBR. I THINK I EVEN HOLD BACK IN RELEASING MY WHOLE SELF TO GOD. I REALLY LIKE THIS PRAYER ALOT.

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  3. What a beautiful prayer. Thanks for sharing it.

    Praying sweet one!
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  4. JBR what a meaningful prayer. Praying that your hands will open wide for God's blessings. God Bless.

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  5. Oh yes, Lord,
    help us to open our hands!
    Enable us to release
    and let go
    of the things we think
    we hold
    and take yours instead.
    Thanks so much for the share;
    my heart sings "yes" to this!
    -Jen

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  6. Beautiful prayer JBR. I had never heard it before.

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  7. (((JBR)))

    Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, especially when you've been holding on for a long time. And I don't think that letting go of pain completely is necessarily good-- I think we need to know and remember some pain in order to direct ourselves to become the people we want to be. But I think there's a balance between holding on and letting go, and that balance is hard to find.

    Wishing you well,
    NOS

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  8. That prayer is like a poem. It really spoke to me too. Thanks JBR

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  9. Very hard to open up and not be clenched. I find it easier if I practice it often! Good luck JBR!

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  10. Just open your clenched fist a tiny bit and miracles will happen. Love from my heart to yours.

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