Some of us may question the misery.
God allows satan to create miserable circumstances to develop in our lives. God sees triumph and is the only one that knows what we need. To further grow us in Him.
We may disagree with His methods. Who likes pain? I don't! Do you? But, trusting and relying on Him is His ultimate goal.
So, if it takes making our own personal pit unbearable at times, then He will allow it. Out of love. To accomplish His will.
Ever since the fall of man, we lost the luxury of a good, wonderful and perfect life. We will not get this back until we reach glory. In the meantime we are subject to an imperfect world with imperfect people living in it. A world full of sin and pain. But, a world which we can still find peace, joy, love, happiness and survive and thrive in. God does make a way for us.
Still, some chose to live in their pit of misery. Refusing to give in. Some of us are more stubborn than others. And takes a lot of prodding of His love to stir us out of our pit. Some of us are more willing to 'die to self' and are ready to do anything to get out!